We all want to feel important, RIGHT? Most people would say that they want to feel important and enjoy positive attention. I believe that it’s formed in us, it’s a basic need. From birth we're taught that acceptance is a good feeling, acceptance makes you feel important. Our society has formed this culture that has taught us to strive for acceptance. Nobody enjoys being singled out? People are afraid of disapproval! RIGHT? I’ll admit when I started Blogging I was afraid of disapproval. Why? Maybe cause I’m putting myself out there. This blog is my hobby, I love to write, I Love my family and friends, and I love God! I worry too much about what people think. Will I look stupid? Will I be judged for my personal thoughts? Does it really matter what others think? Maybe it’s because nobody wants others to think badly about them, it makes you feel bad. Not sure about you, but I try to avoid situations that make me feel bad.
So here’s my thought…….. Refuse to live life as someone else’s opinion or thoughts. You can’t live life unhappy and limit yourself, because what someone might think about you. I’m not going to deny myself of something because I’m worried about what people think.
Here’s how I see it, we all have different thought processes and different opinions (that change all the time). You can’t exhaust yourself with the worry about what someone else might be thinking of you. You cannot control what people think, but you can control who runs your thought process and your life.
This is me, and I've a worked very hard to get where I am today. I can’t let myself stumble in the path I’m on because of what someone else might think about me. I’m a good friend, good mother, good daughter, great wife (LOL) and I’m true to others and to who I am. This blog is me and my family and my love for God. That doesn’t mean that I’ve gone all religious on you and that I’m going to start pushing my beliefs on anyone. I’m a fun person, ask my close friends. You can have faith and a love for God and still have a good time!
So yes, my strings were pulled, and it upset me. You don’t have to read what I write, but I will not stop being who I am for anyone. It’s really all about being a good person, and I have to set the example for my children.
At the end of your day where’s your focus?
So here’s my thought…….. Refuse to live life as someone else’s opinion or thoughts. You can’t live life unhappy and limit yourself, because what someone might think about you. I’m not going to deny myself of something because I’m worried about what people think.
Here’s how I see it, we all have different thought processes and different opinions (that change all the time). You can’t exhaust yourself with the worry about what someone else might be thinking of you. You cannot control what people think, but you can control who runs your thought process and your life.
This is me, and I've a worked very hard to get where I am today. I can’t let myself stumble in the path I’m on because of what someone else might think about me. I’m a good friend, good mother, good daughter, great wife (LOL) and I’m true to others and to who I am. This blog is me and my family and my love for God. That doesn’t mean that I’ve gone all religious on you and that I’m going to start pushing my beliefs on anyone. I’m a fun person, ask my close friends. You can have faith and a love for God and still have a good time!
So yes, my strings were pulled, and it upset me. You don’t have to read what I write, but I will not stop being who I am for anyone. It’s really all about being a good person, and I have to set the example for my children.
At the end of your day where’s your focus?
